As COVID-19 cases oscillate in the United States, the impact of the pandemic continues to affect many workers. The COVID-19 crisis and the related levels of burnout that people are experiencing at work remain pervasive problems, especially among employed parents, according to a new McKinsey survey.
Burnout arises when individuals cannot access enough recovery between stressors.
Employed parents face higher numbers of and longer exposure to stressors from the multiple roles they play, compared with nonparents, and they have less ability to access periods of recovery as a result.
Employed parents report several stressors in particular: a lack of work–life balance, increased responsibilities at both work and home, greater concern for safety at work around COVID-19 infection, a loss of social support and increased isolation, and recent organizational changes affecting their jobs. While the pandemic has had an impact on all employees, this article focuses on the experiences of employed parents in particular.
Compared with nonparents, employed parents are twice as likely to strongly agree that they:
- are worn out at the end of the day,
- used to find their work more interesting, and
- sometimes think their work is insignificant.
In addition to the pandemic-related challenges that people around the world are facing—including illness, financial worry, and isolation from friends and family—employed parents in the United States have had distinct challenges stemming from the COVID-19 crisis. As our survey of employed parents indicates, the compound pressure of working while parenting, including remote schooling and working, has left many citing feelings of apathy and fatigue, and as if they are failing to live up to their own expectations across their multiple social roles. These may include expectations related to not only being a parent, but as a spouse, friend, family member, or caregiver.
There are also indications that parents are not finding the help they need from their employers. For example, in our survey, parents reporting symptoms of burnout are 90 percent more likely to report that they believe senior management at their workplace considers productivity to be more important than mental health.
Populations of color have faced disproportionate job losses and are experiencing a death toll twice that of the White population from COVID-19.
Less than a third of employed parents of color said, “I enjoy my work. I have no symptoms of burnout,” compared with almost half of White parents who said the same.
Beyond facing more health-specific concerns and health-related trauma in their communities, employed parents of color have also had more challenges around childcare. For example, families of color have been more likely than White families to experience pandemic-related childcare closures.
While our survey analysis focused on US respondents, parents around the globe are experiencing fatigue and stress.
The stresses and pressures of being a parent mixed with the demands of work have made life nearly impossible.
Caregiver of two children, United Kingdom
Many employers are recognizing these challenges and are beginning to develop and implement strategies to support their employees in new and different ways. The research and perspectives presented here are offered to support employers as they define and refine their approaches. In the charts below, we highlight some of the meaningful findings from the research and identify actions that employers could consider.
Causes of burnout for employed parents stem from both the home and the workplace
Of the six main causes of burnout—an unsustainable workload, a general perceived lack of control, insufficient rewards for effort, the lack of a supportive community, absence of fairness, and mismatched values and skills—many are challenges that employed parents may be more likely to face, particularly in a pandemic.
It’s a lot. Having no break from kids or working at night. No time to switch off.
Caregiver of two children, Australia
73% of parents with symptoms of burnout report that the demands of their work interfere with their private and family life, compared to 38% of parents without
Employed parents report a range of stressors that have deteriorated their mental health. The level of household responsibilities is a particular problem. In our survey, parents experiencing symptoms of burnout are more often responsible for all household duties, compared with parents not experiencing symptoms of burnout (57 percent versus 41 percent).
69% of parents with symptoms of burnout report that recent organizational changes have significantly affected their job, compared to 49% of parents without
In fact, the majority of parents responsible for all household duties report symptoms of burnout. These responsibilities, for example, including caring for older adult family members in addition to children, most often fall to women, who have also been more likely to cut back on paid work during the COVID-19 pandemic in order to provide childcare.
For these women specifically, reduced paid time at work could also serve to further exacerbate the symptoms of burnout they are experiencing, if their responsibilities at work do not also decrease.
Trying to balance work demands, running a household, paying bills, dealing with [the] issues of an elderly parent, as well as providing emotional support to my son has left me burnt out.
Caregiver of one child, Australia
Rates of mental-health challenges among children have increased during the pandemic, acting as a critical stressor for employed parents
Parents are not the only ones facing mental-health challenges. Throughout the COVID-19 pandemic, the lack of in-person education, reduced social interaction, and widespread uncertainty have taken a toll on children as well. Even as many schools have returned to in-person classes, readapting to previously familiar academic and social circumstances is provoking anxiety and fear among some children and adolescents.
Parents seeking mental healthcare for their children are struggling to find help; for the approximately 15 million children in the United States, there are only 8,000 to 9,000 psychiatrists, and even fewer are in-network or financially accessible.
Parents are understandably worried. Four in five employed parents say that they feel concerned about their child’s mental health, and more than one-third rate this concern as extreme.
I cannot concentrate on my work and always worry about my child’s health.
Caregiver of one child, Canada
Parents’ mental-health challenges correlate to their feelings about work
In our survey, parents are more likely than nonparents to report missing days of work because they are experiencing symptoms of burnout. They are also are more likely to use leaves of absence and supported employment.
While employed parents are more likely than nonparents to see themselves staying at their employer in two years’ time (79 percent versus 64 percent), burnout correlates to employed parents’ likelihood of not recommending their place of work to others. Their perspective on senior management’s attitude toward the importance of mental health, as well as the level of supportiveness their employer shows toward colleagues with mental illness, also declines.
What’s more, stress and burnout, both of which employed parents experience disproportionately more than nonparents, are the main reasons that cause people to consider leaving their jobs.
[My employer could better support me through allowing me] to work flexibly . . . [so that] when I need to take care of my family, I can work remotely . . . [and by] providing more health support, such as childcare services and mental-health consultations.
Caregiver of two children, China
Employers can consider taking a preventative approach toward burnout
Measures that support flexibility and resiliency can help ensure that all employees are engaged in their mental wellness.
Flexible working policies can be a critical tool for both parent and nonparent employees. Parents with access to flexible working policies are substantially less likely to show symptoms of burnout. Conversely, parents reporting symptoms of burnout who are unaware of flexible policies at work are more likely to request similar policies and to believe that these options would benefit them.
It is important for employers to realize that flexible working policies can come in many forms, going beyond remote-work options and including options such as reducing an individual’s work responsibilities and offering part-time work.
Parents who reported being offered flexible working schedules were 31% more likely than parents without access to flexible working schedules to not be exhibiting any strong signs of burnout.
The following are the top policies and benefits that parents were most likely to request to support their mental health:
- flexible work schedule
- remote-work options (independent of the COVID-19 pandemic)
- family-support services (eg, childcare or dependent-care stipends, backup care)
- skill-building programs (eg, sleep improvement, stress-management programs)
- family or medical leave for mental-health conditions
[Employers should] allow more flexibility in terms of working in the office and from home so that employees can better take care of both their work and family matters.
Caregiver of three children, Singapore
Employers can consider certain initiatives to better support employed parents experiencing burnout
Employers taking steps to address their employees’ mental health—including helping them to feel included and valued—can begin this journey by actively listening to their employees to better understand the challenges they face and by acting on what they hear.
For employers, actively supporting parents’ mental health can lead to many forms of positive impact. By taking steps to prevent burnout and stress, an employer can help enable both employees and their families to thrive. Additionally, by acting to prevent and reduce burnout among employed parents, employers are not only supporting a population that, in turn, is more likely to remain in the workforce down the line and to endorse the organization to others, but also creating a more supportive organization overall.
Subsequent steps may include the following.
Make parents feel heard
- Managers can lead with compassion, working with their teams on promoting well-being, addressing stress, exhaustion, and burnout, and encouraging open discussion on topics of mental health by sharing their own stories.
- Involve parents in conversations around how they would most appreciate employer support, particularly in times of uncertainty (for example, on topics such as return to in-person working and organizational changes). Consider affinity groups to help foster connectivity.
- Refine organizational support plans for parents by addressing uncovered pain points and needs.
Build a work culture that supports mental health
- Establish flexibility around remote working (for example, flexibility to work from home as needed, or flexible hours) and communicate expectations early. Establish formal boundaries to help prevent employees from feeling that they need to be “always on” (for example, policies that make it clear that employees are not expected to respond to nonurgent requests outside of traditional working hours). Allow managers to work with direct reports in defining their responsibilities.
- Allow employees to adjust their workload as needed to tend to caregiving responsibilities, with ability to transition between full and part time as is feasible. When possible, allow employees to transition to more time-flexible roles (for example, from an inbound to an outbound call center, or from a direct customer-facing role to one involving document review).
- Structure performance reviews to reemphasize that employees are evaluated on results over simply where or what hours they work. Ensure in day-to-day and formal communications that leaders are not inadvertently signaling that long hours and face time are measures of performance.
Provide critical resources aligned with employees’ priorities
- Offer clear guidance on navigating the healthcare landscape for employed parents to support their or their children’s mental-health needs (for example, by creating a central internal landing page highlighting in-network child therapists).
- Consider providing more options for childcare support (for example, subsidized, on-site, or back-up childcare), nursing services, and other home- and family-focused benefits, showing value and support of employees as people juggling multiple roles.
- Ensure that benefits and other programs supporting mental health (for example, digital wellness apps) include access for close family members, such as employees’ children.